I personally still think it is better than not having it, because the alternative is worse.
People who decline loadouts or refuse to follow directions or get on the 4th gun on a pyra as a gunner instead of the 1st are often subject to verbal abuse as pilots vent their frustration at what they perceive as the source of their frustration until that player abandons the match of their own accord or the match ends so they can leave without hurting their completion record (which people do care about).
I myself, to people have refused loadouts repeatedly after myself explaining why I am recommending a loadout, have berated them, called them out to the entire lobby, blocked them, recommended the rest of the lobby block them, and suggested a full relocation of the entire lobby so that they would not have to deal with that player, left the match, and decided to just do something else for the day because now I'm in a foul mood.
The BRR method can be applied to newbies as well. I don't know if it would feel any better for 3 people to leave because they don't want to deal with you, have to sit on a ship with a pilot who wishes he never got on the helm with you, or just get kicked and have to requeue.
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Not to mention the actual trolls who spin in place to avoid autokick.
This will definitely be a wholesome discussion.