To go back to your original question, just try different things. I found the best way to learn to fly was to actually crew on some very experienced captains' ships and just payed attention to what they did. But here are a few general tips for those interested in breaking into flying.
> Start off with your pilot tools as Kerosene, Phoenix Claw, and Hydrogen. Use your crew for spotting.
> Start with Goldfish, Junker, or Squid with wide-arc guns (gatlings, banshees, flamethrowers, artemi, carronades, or flares)
> Canyon Ambush and Firnfeld are the two easiest maps to learn flying on because the terrain is mild but there is still decent cover
> As a pilot, you have 2 jobs: Job 1, point guns at enemy; Job 2, avoid getting killed. Everything you do is to accomplish one of these two things.
Now of course there is all the other stuff that goes along with piloting, like crew loadouts and communication. Basically, have recommended loadouts ready or you will end up with very strange things. Communicate with your crew and allied captain. You don't have to rebind your keys that much, but I suggest changing map to something more convenient (I use MMB).