Well I actually had some situations of yelling at each other on board. In fact, it is I mostly who do so. To justify myself I can only tell, that I always try to be more or less patient, unless somebody is repeating same stupid mistakes (like Mishka The Great, who charged between enemies, got us in gat trifecta and was angry at us because in his enlightened opinion it was fault of our laziness and not keeping up, that our armour was almost constantly down) or completely ignoring advices, questions or whatever (like one captain I flew with today; during King Of The Hill he wanted rather to chase and shoot down galleon instead of helping ally to keep the point).
The fact is that you must persist matches with novices, because, well. Many of them have no clue what's important in this game, taking it as another Call Of Duty alike crap.
Play with more experienced players - there's a
HUGE difference. I'll tell you what - if you are writing on the forum about such problem, there's a hope you'll get on well with other players. Learn to read text chat and to listen what is often said. This game requires strict teamwork to win so communication is important. And believe me - even if you are very low level so-called noob, but you are willing to communicate, learn and listen, then you are seen as much more worthy player than many others who are deaf and mute...
This game needs patience and staying calm. Many newbies aren't aware of that.
Welcome to Guns Of Icarus - a game, where one must go through some beating and bashing, but if one have patience, have some good will to face defeat not broken - you'll become a part of the family.
Wish you luck and clear skies.