This is why my GOIO friends list takes like 3 minutes to scroll down.
If you're in a decent clan, I will add you.
E.g. 'Oh look a Clan, spqr, rydr, duck, gent, csm, bard, tbb, tb, mm, sac, ovw, gwth I haven't seen before, better add them because I know they'll communicate and generally be fun to fly with.
Also my experience is helped generally helped by only flying with those I know.
But it is still sad that a full cake ship, that's like 45/45/40/30+ will get match made against an under prepared, under levelled opponent that gets stomped. I'm beyond feeling bad now because if that's what match maker wants to do, then I say let it do it.
This is broken.
Flying on your own with pubs is awful yes, it's like a test of will, how long can you go without going ballistic?