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B'Elanna:
--- Quote from: sparklerfish on October 03, 2014, 05:48:02 pm ---Man, I was in a lobby yesterday that was having a really positive discussion about feminism until it somehow turned to be about female pubic hair.
"A conversation about women as people? OH NO, QUICK, BETTER TURN IT TO BE ABOUT SEX!"
--- End quote ---
honey, you know that...
women aren't supposed to grow hair, take shits and fart, or smell of anything other than rose paddles and rain on a clear summer day.
that's just not okay.
women are supposed to be soft and beautiful to look at, easy for the eyes AND nose. you don't want to bother your man now, do you? or any other for that sake.
always be gentle and understanding, make them feel heard and considered! as a woman it is your job to make sure men feel that they matter. and what better way to do that then making them decide what body hair you can admit to growing and what is just disgusting and you should hide your shame. :)
oh and Aayra, i don't really care if people want to come or not, lydia and me would be fine playing alone but by giving it a broad title like "girl gaming night" or similar things it made it clear that we do want female company and NO we do not have to know you first. and it worked. we had a really lovely evening and it was kinda nice. we played in the iron fork and then we split up into L4D2 and TF2. and then i left and they continued playing. people got to know one another, and now also casually want to hit each other up for a game here and there. exactly what i wanted out of this.
and what i mentioned about being respectful and mindful of making sure you as a male player don't make women uncomfortable only counts if those men don't have the consent of those women to treat them a certain way. if you are fine with public flirting all the power to you, but it obviously means you have talked to people about it and it was okay for you to be treated like that right? as for random strangers. it only counts if they want to be decent human beings respectfully approaching a situation. hey if not then that's fine too. they're just gonna be called out on the disrespectful boundary crossing individual they are.
cat-calling and disgusting behaviour is not always done to hit on us sorely.
sometimes it's like a dog pissing on his territory. they feel we're not supposed to feel comfortable here and they try to enforce that. "not feeding the troll" is shutting up and letting them piss all over this community. this is why CAs shouldn't block people right? to not be oblivious to abuse and not letting it happen continuously but honestly i lost all my believe in this CA system. they have no power to do anything anyway. some are more scared to stand up to abuse than before they got their yellow name. it's kinda sad.
(this is more to everyone)
look i don't really care if you think i'm an over-reactive over-sensitive feminist killjoy that takes away your innocent fun. i don't.
i just wanted to invite other girls to play video games with me.
and those who want to come can just show up any time.
that's. it. ^^
Squidslinger Gilder:
--- Quote from: B'Elanna on October 04, 2014, 04:52:19 am ---honey, you know that...
women aren't supposed to grow hair, take shits and fart, or smell of anything other than rose paddles and rain on a clear summer day.
that's just not okay.
women are supposed to be soft and beautiful to look at, easy for the eyes AND nose. you don't want to bother your man now, do you? or any other for that sake.
always be gentle and understanding, make them feel heard and considered! as a woman it is your job to make sure men feel that they matter. and what better way to do that then making them decide what body hair you can admit to growing and what is just disgusting and you should hide your shame. :)
oh and Aayra, i don't really care if people want to come or not, lydia and me would be fine playing alone but by giving it a broad title like "girl gaming night" or similar things it made it clear that we do want female company and NO we do not have to know you first. and it worked. we had a really lovely evening and it was kinda nice. we played in the iron fork and then we split up into L4D2 and TF2. and then i left and they continued playing. people got to know one another, and now also casually want to hit each other up for a game here and there. exactly what i wanted out of this.
and what i mentioned about being respectful and mindful of making sure you as a male player don't make women uncomfortable only counts if those men don't have the consent of those women to treat them a certain way. if you are fine with public flirting all the power to you, but it obviously means you have talked to people about it and it was okay for you to be treated like that right? as for random strangers. it only counts if they want to be decent human beings respectfully approaching a situation. hey if not then that's fine too. they're just gonna be called out on the disrespectful boundary crossing individual they are.
cat-calling and disgusting behaviour is not always done to hit on us sorely.
sometimes it's like a dog pissing on his territory. they feel we're not supposed to feel comfortable here and they try to enforce that. "not feeding the troll" is shutting up and letting them piss all over this community. this is why CAs shouldn't block people right? to not be oblivious to abuse and not letting it happen continuously but honestly i lost all my believe in this CA system. they have no power to do anything anyway. some are more scared to stand up to abuse than before they got their yellow name. it's kinda sad.
(this is more to everyone)
look i don't really care if you think i'm an over-reactive over-sensitive feminist killjoy that takes away your innocent fun. i don't.
i just wanted to invite other girls to play video games with me.
and those who want to come can just show up any time.
that's. it. ^^
--- End quote ---
macmacnick:
I, for one, stand up to trolls. See a troll and i'm online, just summon me. (I have my methods of dealing with trolls.)
RedRoach:
If you see a troll on the internet, don't feed the troll, let the troll feed you.
Whenever I see a douchebag on the internet, I take a "Enlightened gentleman" approach with the most exquisite insults ever.
Retard: WHY THE SHIT ARE YOU LETTING A GIRL ON YOUR TEAM!?!?111!?
Me: Excuse me good sir, but I am not allowing a girl on my team, but rather a valuable team player unlike yourself. In addition, I find that assistants who do not scream are much more valuable than those who use binary code to express their anger instead of proper punctuation.
Retard: Dafuq?
Shadak Shademore:
I don't Tolerate trolls.
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