ok so first off welcome to the community second il list of my oppion of meta
Engineer-Loadout
Pilot tool-Spyglass
Engineering-Mallet-Spanner-extingusher
Ammo-burst (you should be told every game what ammo)
This applies to every ship except squid when it is a wrench over mallet, unless told by the captain on the ship to bring buff stay this loadout and you will go far
Gunner-Loadout
Pilot tool-Spyglass
Engineering-Wrench
Ammo-Heavy-Burst-Greased (this is the default manticore and mortor loadout probley the 2 most used guns in the game and covers the artimus for burst and gattling gun for greased) again you should be told by captain what ammo
Pilot
Pilot tools-Kerosene Claw hydrogen
Engineering-Wrench
Ammo-burst (first round i thought off doesnt matter your flying haha)
Ships
Pyra-Gattling gun top right mortar top left side guns mortar flare 2 engineers 1 gunner
Goldfish-Manticore front-gattling ether side 2 engineers 1 gunner
Junker-Artimus front hades artimus side left mortar gattling right side 2 engineers 1 gunner
Mobula-Hades middle artimus ether side top deck middle deck gattling gun mortar 2 engineers 1 gunner
squid- Carronade Front Flamer side Mine launcher rear- 3 engineers
Spire-manticore front main gun gattling gun side middle deck top deck merc and artimus 2 engineers 1 gunner
Galleon- manticore front 2 carronades rear 2 flamer main flare rear 2 engineers 1 gunner
Again this all my oppion but them are pretty standard loadouts nothing fancy to start off with next time you are in game go to social then CA and ask any one on that list with any questions and if they have time to help you practice or train also global chat is normally really friendly with experinced players always willing to teach new guys. hope this helps good luck