I'm sure everyone has had this scenario happen to them.
6 of your clanmates are on and 7 from another clan are on. Y'all want to have a pickup game so you tell them you are making a lobby and ask them to join quickly. You jump over but before all can load in, that level one gunner takes the captain spot and gets mighty offended when you ask him to switch.
Well here is a solution. Have an option so that the host of a private lobby can switch the game to public. That way you can make sure you get your teams right before letting in anyone. Its basically a form of crew formation but it would allow for setting up to play against other teams.