Does he say it was his first? I just skipped to the part. Not going to sit through his vid. He seemed to have some concept of what to do so didn't seem like a total noob to me. Keep in mind, some of us have had noobs on their ships which literally behave like untrained chimps. Shooting randomly, banging on things randomly, and flinging fecal matter at random crew members .
If you're not willing to take the time to bother to see if it's someones first match, then you really shouldn't pass judgement. He had done only the tutorials, and then that was the first game he'd ever played. It irritates me that people are so willing to dismiss someone without bothering to ask simple questions. Ugh.
Yes, we've all had the people that refuse to or don't want to learn, and it's frustrating. Best you can do is try to explain what you need and why, and hope that eventually they'll learn (obviously not playing if they try to stay on your ship after the match.)
But if you just dismiss people instantly, you could miss out on teaching gold nuggets that will one day grow into strong community members.